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(src)="1"> © 2018 Watch Tower Bible and Tract Society of Pennsylvania
(trg)="1"> © 2018 Watch Tower Bible and Tract Society of Pennsylvania

(src)="2"> I kaat ini i ta bé inyu nyuñga .
(trg)="2"> This publication is not for sale .

(src)="3"> I yé njel yada inyu tjam biniigana bi Bibel ni nkoñ isi woñsôna ; nson unu , u mbôña ni njel makébla ma njômbi ñem .
(trg)="3"> It is provided as part of a worldwide Bible educational work supported by voluntary donations .

(src)="4"> Inyu ti likébla , soho yuuga bés i www.jw.org .
(trg)="4"> To make a donation , please visit www.jw.org .

(src)="6"> Ndi ibale u ntehe MN , yi le bipes bi , bi nyôña ikété Les saintes écritures ​ — Traduction du monde nouveau .
(trg)="5"> Unless otherwise indicated , Scripture quotations are from the modern - language New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures .

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(src)="1"> Di mbéna nok bibéba bi mam bi bi ñôbôs mahaa .
(trg)="1"> We hear a lot about what goes wrong in families that fail .

(src)="2"> Ndi mambe mam ma nla hôla mahaa le ma ba ikété maséé ?
(trg)="2"> But what goes right in those that succeed ?

(src)="3"> Ipôla nwii 1990 ni 2016 i loñ Amérika , nsoñgi u mabii ma ma mbos hiki nwii u bi bet ngélé iba inyu bôt ba nloo 50 nwii , ndi inyu bôt ba nloo 65 nwii , u bi bet ngélé iaa .
(trg)="3"> Between 1990 and 2015 , the divorce rate in the United States doubled for those over the age of 50 and tripled for those over 65 .

(src)="4"> Bagwal ba yé nhelek : Bayimam bape ba nkal le bagwal ba nlama bégés bon bap hiki ngéda , ndi bape ki ba nkal le bagwal ba nlama bop bon bap .
(trg)="4"> Parents are confused : Some experts recommend giving children constant praise , while others advocate tough love .

(src)="5"> Boñge ba wanda ba yé ba nañ bo ngi bana yi i i nhôla bo i tjek mam map ma niñ .
(trg)="5"> Young people are entering adulthood without the skills they need to succeed .

(src)="6"> Ndi , maliga ma yé le . . .
(trg)="6"> Nevertheless , the fact is . . .

(src)="7"> Libii li yé ngim likébla li li yé le li nlama bé mal .
(trg)="7"> Marriage can be a rewarding and permanent bond .

(src)="8"> Bagwal ba nlama nigil i kodol bon bap ni gwéha .
(trg)="8"> Parents can learn to discipline their children with love .

(src)="9"> Boñge ba wanda ba nla nigil i hôlôs makeñge ma ma ga bane bo nseñ ngéda ba ga nañ .
(trg)="9"> Young people can gain the skills they need for adulthood .

(src)="10"> Lelaa ?
(trg)="10"> How ?

(src)="11"> I Tode ‘ ilo !
(trg)="11"> This issue of Awake !

(src)="12"> nunu a ga toñol 12 maéba tole diliba di di nla hôla mahaa i ba maséé .
(trg)="12"> will discuss 12 secrets of successful families .

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(src)="1"> Maéba 1 Mayegna
(trg)="1"> Secret 1 Commitment

(src)="2"> Maéba 2 I boñ mam ntôñ
(trg)="2"> Secret 2 Teamwork

(src)="3"> Maéba 3 I tina lipém
(trg)="3"> Secret 3 Respect

(src)="4"> Maéba 4 Nwéhél
(trg)="4"> Secret 4 Forgiveness

(src)="5"> Maéba 5 I kwel ntôñ
(trg)="5"> Secret 5 Communication

(src)="6"> Maéba 6 Bikodlene
(trg)="6"> Secret 6 Discipline

(src)="7"> Maéba 7 mam ma yé mahee
(trg)="7"> Secret 7 Values

(src)="8"> Maéba 8 Ndémbél
(trg)="8"> Secret 8 Example

(src)="9"> Maéba 9 Libak
(trg)="9"> Secret 9 Identity

(src)="10"> Maéba 10 Telepsép
(trg)="10"> Secret 10 Trustworthiness

(src)="11"> Maéba 11 I ba mut bôlô
(trg)="11"> Secret 11 Industriousness

(src)="12"> Maéba 12 Njômbi
(trg)="12"> Secret 12 Goals

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(src)="2"> INYU BABIINA
(trg)="1"> FOR COUPLES

(src)="3"> Ibale nwaa bo nlôm ba ndiihe libii jap , ba ga hoñol bé i bagla kel yada , ndi hiki wada a nôgda le sobiina wé a yéne nye loñge lisolbene .
(trg)="2"> Husbands and wives who are committed to their marriage view it as a permanent bond , and that creates a sense of security between them .

(src)="4"> Hala a mboñ le hiki sobiina a yé nkwook nkaa le ba ga ti libii jap lipém , to ibale mandutu ma mpémél bo .
(trg)="3"> Each spouse is confident that the other will honor the union , even in difficult times .

(src)="5"> Mam ma moni tole mahaa mape ma nla nyégsa ngim babiina i yén ntôñ .
(trg)="4"> Some couples feel compelled to stay together because of social or family pressure .

(src)="6"> Ndi i yé loñge le bo iba ba ba ñômôk ikété gwéha , hiki wada a tinak nuu lipém .
(trg)="5"> Far better , however , is a sense of commitment that is based on mutual love and respect .

(src)="7"> LITIÑ LI BIBEL : “ Munlôm a nlama bé bagla ni nwaa wé . ” ​ — 1 Korintô 7 : 11 , MN .
(trg)="6"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ A husband should not leave his wife . ” ​ — 1 Corinthians 7 : 11 .

(src)="8"> “ Ibale u ndiihe libii joñ , u nla neebe i nimis ngim mam .
(trg)="7"> “ If you are committed to your marriage , you allow yourself to be wronged .

(src)="9"> U yé bebee i nwéhél dihôha , ni i hôya tjo .
(trg)="8"> You are quick to forgive and quick to apologize .

(src)="10"> U nlama bé tehe mindañ kiki manjom inyu mabos , ndi kiki jam li li nhôla bé i tibil yina . ” ​ — Mika .
(trg)="9"> You view problems as obstacles , not as deal breakers . ” ​ — Micah .

(src)="11"> Ngéda ba mboma mandutu , ngim babiina i i ndiihe bé yegna yap ( hala wee mbônga wap ) i nhoo ndik kit le : ‘ Me ntehe le me ni we di nla bé niñ ntôñ , ’ ba mpala ki yéñ le ba bos libii jap .
(trg)="10"> When confronted with problems , spouses without commitment are more likely to conclude , ‘ We just weren’t made for each other ’ and look for ways to get out of the marriage .

(src)="12"> “ Ngandak bôt i mbiiba ni mahoñol mana le , ibale mam ma nke bé loñge , ba mbos .
(trg)="11"> “ Many people go into marriage knowing that they have a ‘ fallback plan ’ ​ — divorce .

(src)="13"> Ngéda bôt ba mbiiba ni mahoñol le ba ga bos , wee ibôdôl bibôdle nyen yegna yap i bi sedep . ” ​ — Yôhanes .
(trg)="12"> When people enter marriage already thinking about the possibility of divorce , their commitment is lacking right from the start . ” ​ — Jean .

(src)="14"> TIBIL WANBA
(trg)="13"> TEST YOURSELF

(src)="15"> Ngéda jomol li mpam . . .
(trg)="14"> When in the middle of a dispute . . .

(src)="16"> Baa u ntam inyuki u bi biiba ni nlô woñ tole nwaa woñ ?
(trg)="15"> Do you find yourself regretting that you married your spouse ?

(src)="17"> Baa u nhoñol le , ki i bé nseñ le u biiba ni mut numpe ?
(trg)="16"> Do you daydream about being with someone else ?

(src)="18"> Baa u yé u mpot bibuk kiki bo le “ m’a tjôô we ” tole “ m’a ke yak mut numpe nu a ndiihe me ” ?
(trg)="17"> Do you say things such as “ I’m leaving you ” or “ I’m going to find someone who appreciates me ” ?

(src)="19"> Ibale u bi timbhe le ñ , to ndik inyu mbadga yada mu mambadga ma , wee yoñ bitelbene ibôdôl nano inyu lédés yegna yoñ .
(trg)="18"> If you answered yes to one or more of those questions , now is the time to strengthen your commitment .

(src)="20"> KWEL NI SOBIINA WOÑ
(trg)="19"> DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE

(src)="21"> Baa yegna yés libii i nhoi ?
(trg)="20"> Has the level of commitment in our marriage decreased ?

(src)="22"> Ibale ñ , inyuki ?
(trg)="21"> If so , why ?

(src)="23"> Kii di nlama boñ ibôdôl nano inyu lédés yegna yés ?
(trg)="22"> What steps can we take now to strengthen our commitment ?

(src)="24"> NDÉK MAÉBA
(trg)="23"> TIPS

(src)="25"> Tilna nlô woñ tole nwaa woñ bibañga bi gwéha
(trg)="24"> Write an occasional love note to your spouse

(src)="26"> Unda le u ndiihe yegna yoñ ngéda u mbambal bifôtô bi nwaa woñ tole nlô woñ i homa woñ bôlô
(trg)="25"> Show your commitment by displaying photos of your spouse on your desk at work

(src)="27"> Sébél nlô woñ tole nwaa woñ i téléfôn hiki kel ngéda u yé i homa woñ bôlô
(trg)="26"> Phone your spouse each day while you are at work or apart

(src)="28"> LITIÑ LI BIBEL : “ Jam Nyambe a ñat , mut a bagal bañ jo . ” ​ — Matéô 19 : 6 .
(trg)="27"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ What God has yoked together , let no man put apart . ” ​ — Matthew 19 : 6 .

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(src)="2"> INYU BABIINA
(trg)="1"> FOR COUPLES

(src)="3"> Ibale ikété ndap libii , nwaa bo nlôm ba mboñ mam ntôñ , ba mpôôna nkena avioñ bo nhôla wé , bo iba ba gwé njômbi yada mu liké jap .
(trg)="2"> When there is teamwork in a marriage , a husband and wife are like a pilot and copilot with the same flight plan .

(src)="4"> To ngéda mandutu ma mpémél bo , hiki sobiina a nhoñol le bo “ iba ” bon ba nlama jôs mo he “ wada ” nyetama bé .
(trg)="3"> Even when challenges arise , each spouse thinks in terms of “ we ” rather than “ me . ”

(src)="5"> LITIÑ LI BIBEL : “ Ba ta ha bé iba , ndik nsôn wada . ” ​ — Matéô 19 : 6 .
(trg)="4"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ They are no longer two , but one flesh . ” ​ — Matthew 19 : 6 .

(src)="6"> “ Woo wada u nkañ bé jomb .
(trg)="5"> “ Marriage is not a solo act .

(src)="7"> Nwaa bo nlôm ba nlama boñ mam ntôñ inyu boñ le libii jap li ke loñge . ” ​ — Kristôfer .
(trg)="6"> Husband and wife must work together to make it successful . ” ​ — Christopher .

(src)="8"> Ngéda ngimanôgla i mpam , babiina ba ba mbéna bé boñ mam ntôñ ba mbôdôl ômna minsohi iloole ba tibil wan i yom i nke bé .
(trg)="7"> When a conflict arises , a husband and wife who are not a team will tend to attack each other rather than the problem .
(trg)="8"> Minor issues will turn into major obstacles .

(src)="9"> “ Li boñ mam ntôñ li yé nseñ ngandak inyu libii .
(trg)="9"> “ Teamwork is the essence of marriage .

(src)="10"> Ibale me ni nlô wem di salak bé ntôñ , ki di yé ndik kiki bo gwañga bi bôt bi bi niñ ikété tuñ yada , ha kiki nwaa bo nlôm bé ​ — hala wee bôt iba ba ba niñ ntôñ ndi ba gwé bé hoñol yada ngéda i mpam le ba yoñ makidik . ” ​ — Aléksandra .
(trg)="10"> If my husband and I weren’t a team , we would be roommates instead of marriage mates ​ — two people who live together but who aren’t on the same page when it comes to important decisions . ” ​ — Alexandra .

(src)="11"> TIBIL WANBA
(trg)="11"> TEST YOURSELF

(src)="12"> Baa me ntehe le moni me nkôs mi yé ndik inyu “ yem metama ” ?
(trg)="12"> Do I view the money I earn as “ all mine ” ?

(src)="13"> Baa inyu boñ le me tégbaha loñge ngéda , me nlama ndik ba haa ni sobiina wem ?
(trg)="13"> To relax fully , do I need to be away from my spouse ?

(src)="14"> Baa me nlama keñgle lihaa li sobiina wem to ibale a gwé manôgla malam ni jo ?
(trg)="14"> Do I keep my distance from my spouse’s relatives , even though he or she is close to them ?

(src)="15"> KWEL NI SOBIINA WOÑ
(trg)="15"> DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE

(src)="16"> Baa mambe mam ikété libii jés di mboñ loñge ngéda di yé ntôñ ?
(trg)="16"> In what aspect ( s ) of our marriage do we work well as a team ?

(src)="17"> Bimbe bilem hiki wada wés a nlama hôlôs ?
(trg)="17"> In what aspect ( s ) could we improve ?

(src)="18"> Bimbe bitelbene di nla yoñ inyu boñ le di sal loñge ni nsañ wonsôna ?
(trg)="18"> What steps can we take to improve our spirit of teamwork ?

(src)="19"> NDÉK MAÉBA
(trg)="19"> TIPS

(src)="20"> Hégda le ni yé tuk bol , hiki wada nan a bak hié hikip .
(trg)="20"> Imagine a tennis match with the two of you on opposite sides of the net .

(src)="21"> Iloole ni ba dikip diba , bimbe bitelbene ni nla yoñ inyu boñ le we ni sobiina woñ ni ba hikip hiada ?
(trg)="21"> Instead , what practical steps can you take to join your spouse so that you are both on the same team ?

(src)="22"> Iloole u badba le : ‘ Lelaa me nla boñ inyu yémbél jam lini ? ’
(trg)="22"> Instead of thinking , ‘ How can I win ? ’

(src)="23"> Badba le : ‘ Lelaa di nla boñ inyu yémbél jam lini ? ’
(trg)="23"> think ‘ How can we both win ? ’

(src)="24"> “ I ta bé nseñ i yéñ yi njee a gwé njom .
(trg)="24"> “ Forget about who is right and who is wrong .

(src)="25"> Ndi , nsañ ni adna gwon bi yé nseñ ngandak ikété ndap libii . ” ​ — Étan .
(trg)="25"> That isn’t as important as having peace and unity in your marriage . ” ​ — Ethan .

(src)="26"> LITIÑ LI BIBEL : “ Mut nye ki nye a tôñ bañndigi inyu yé nyetama , ndi a tôñ inyu bôt bape . ” ​ — Filipi 2 : 3 , 4 .
(trg)="26"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ Look out not only for your own interests , but also for the interests of others . ” ​ — Philippians 2 : 3 , 4 .

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(src)="2"> INYU BABIINA
(trg)="1"> FOR COUPLES

(src)="3"> Babiina ba ba ntina lipém ba ntôñna bo ni bo , to ibale ngimanôgla i mpam .
(trg)="2"> Respectful spouses care about each other , even during a disagreement .

(src)="4"> Kaat ni hop Ngisi le Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage , i nkal le : “ Hiki sobiina , a nlama ndigi bé yééne i makidik mé motama ; maselna ni hala , bo iba ba nlama yoñ ngéda inyu kwélél i mam ma nlona bo ngimanôgla .
(trg)="3"> “ These couples don’t get gridlocked in their separate positions , ” says the book Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage .
(trg)="4"> “ Instead , they keep talking with each other about conflicts .

(src)="5"> Hiki sobiina a nlama diihe mahoñol ma nuu numpe , ni yoñ makidik ma ma ntinde bo iba i nôgla . ”
(trg)="5"> They listen respectfully to their spouses ’ perspectives and they find compromises that work for both sides . ”

(src)="6"> LITIÑ LI BIBEL : “ Gwéha . . . i nyiñil bé ndigi yomede . ” ​ — 1 Korintô 13 : 4 , 5 .
(trg)="6"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ Love . . . does not look for its own interests . ” ​ — 1 Corinthians 13 : 4 , 5 .

(src)="7"> “ Ibale me nti nwaa wem lipém , hala a nkobla le me nyi le a gwé mahee , ni le me nlama bé boñ yom yo ki yo y’a unbaha nye , ndi to ôbôs libii jés . ” ​ — Mika .
(trg)="7"> “ To respect my wife means that I appreciate her value and I don’t want to do anything that would damage her or our marriage . ” ​ — Micah .

(src)="8"> Ibale babiina ba ntina bé lipém bo ni bo , ba mba ba nyahlana , ba solnaga , ba mba ki ba nyana bo ni bo ​ — ngandak bayimam i nkal le bilem bibe bi , bi nla tinde bôt i bos libii jap .
(trg)="8"> Without respect , conversation between spouses can become laced with criticism , sarcasm , and even contempt ​ — qualities that researchers say are early predictors of divorce .

(src)="9"> “ Bipôdôl bibe , i bébe nwaa woñ jam , ni minjôha mimbe , bi nla boñ le a nôgda le a gwé ha bé nseñ wo ki wo , yak botñem yé inyu yoñ i ga mal , hala a ga ôbôs libii linan . ” ​ — Brian .
(trg)="9"> “ Making snide remarks , innuendos , or jokes about your wife will only crush her confidence , destroy her trust , and damage your marriage . ” ​ — Brian .

(src)="10"> TIBIL WANBA
(trg)="10"> TEST YOURSELF

(src)="11"> Tibil wan bipôdôl ni maboñok moñ ikété ngim sonde .
(trg)="11"> Track your conversation and actions for a week .

(src)="12"> Mbus badba le :
(trg)="12"> Then ask yourself :

(src)="13"> ‘ Me nsol sobiina wem , tole me nti nye bibégés ngélé yañen inyu ngim kel ? ’
(trg)="13"> ‘ How often did I criticize my spouse , and how often did I give her a compliment ? ’

(src)="14"> ‘ Bimbe bilem bilam bi sobiina wem bi ntinde me i ti nye lipém ? ’
(trg)="14"> ‘ In what specific ways did I show respect for my spouse ? ’

(src)="15"> KWEL NI SOBIINA WOÑ
(trg)="15"> DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE

(src)="16"> Mambe maboñok tole bipôdôl bi nla boñ le u nôgda le sobiina woñ a nti we lipém ?
(trg)="16"> What actions and words would help each of you feel respected ?