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(src)="1"> HELP FOR THE FAMILY | PARENTING
(trg)="1"> MMOA A WƆDE MA ABUSUA NO | MMOFRA NTETEE

(src)="2"> You have heard that sexting is common among young people .
(trg)="2"> Woate sɛ aguamansɛm a wɔde mena yɛ biribi a ɛrekɔ so wɔ mmerante ne mmabaa ntam .

(src)="3"> ‘ Would my teenager do that ? ’
(src)="4"> you may wonder .
(trg)="3"> Ebia wubebisa wo ho sɛ , ‘ So me babun bɛyɛ biribi a ɛte saa ? ’

(src)="5"> You want to discuss the matter with your child ​ — but how ?
(trg)="4"> Wopɛ sɛ wo ne wo ba no susuw asɛm no ho ​ — nanso ɔkwan bɛn so ?

(src)="6"> Before answering , consider why some young people have become involved in sexting and why you should be concerned .
(trg)="5"> Ansa na wubebua no , susuw nea enti a mmerante ne mmabaa binom de wɔn ho ahyɛ aguamansɛm a wɔde mena mu ne nea enti a ɛsɛ sɛ ɛho hia wo .

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(src)="8"> Some teenagers send sexually explicit messages to flirt with someone they like .
(trg)="7"> Mmabun binom de aguamansɛm mena wɔn a wɔpɛ wɔn asɛm sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ a wɔne wɔn bɛwewe .

(src)="9"> In other cases , a girl sends an explicit photo of herself because she is pressured by a boy to do so .
(trg)="8"> Ebi nso wɔ hɔ a , mmerante tumi hunahuna mmabaa ma wotwa wɔn adagyaw ho mfonini de mena wɔn .

(src)="10"> Sometimes a boy will mass forward an explicit photo of a girl either to entertain his friends or to retaliate after a breakup .
(trg)="9"> Ɛtɔ mmere bi a , ɔbarima bi de ɔbea bi a wabɔ adagyaw mfonini bɛmena ne nnamfo ma wɔde agyigye wɔn ani , anaa ɔyɛ saa de tua no ka esiane sɛ ɔne no agyae nti .

(src)="11"> Whatever the cause , a teenager armed with a cell phone can get into a lot of trouble .
(trg)="10"> Ɛmfa ho sɛnea ɛte biara no , ɔbabun biara a ɔwɔ fon no betumi atɔ asiane mu .

(src)="12"> “ In the click of a button , ” says the book CyberSafe , “ lives are changed forever . ”
(trg)="11"> Nhoma bi ka sɛ , nea ehia ara ne sɛ “ wobɛkIik biribi so , na asɛm ato wo . ” ​ — CyberSafe .

(src)="13"> Many people fail to realize that once a photo goes into cyberspace , the sender loses control over how the photo will be used .
(trg)="12"> Nnipa pii nnim sɛ , wonya de wɔn mfonini to Intanɛt so a , afoforo betumi de ayɛ nea wɔpɛ biara .

(src)="14"> In one case , reports a bulletin from the U.S .
(trg)="13"> Amanneɛbɔ bi a U.S .

(src)="15"> Federal Bureau of Investigation ( FBI ) , an 18 - year - old girl “ committed suicide after a nude photo she had transmitted via her cell phone to her boyfriend also was sent to hundreds of teenagers in her school .
(trg)="14"> Ɔman Nhwehwɛmu Asoɛe de too gua kyerɛ sɛ , bere a ababaa bi a wadi mfe 18 hui sɛ “ ne mpena de ne mfonini bi a wabɔ adagyaw wom a ɔde menaa no no amena ne sukuufo pii no , odii ne ho dɔm .

(src)="16"> Other students , who apparently continued to forward the image , allegedly harassed the girl . ”
(trg)="15"> Ebetumi aba sɛ sukuufo afoforo a wɔkɔɔ so de mfonini no mena menaa afoforo no na ɛteetee ababaa no . ”

(src)="17"> Sexting also raises legal issues .
(trg)="16"> Aguamansɛm ho mfonini a wɔde mena afoforo no to mmara .

(src)="18"> In some places , for example , minors who have sent sexually explicit images to other minors have been charged with child - pornography offenses and have been required to register as sex offenders .
(trg)="17"> Sɛ nhwɛso no , wɔ mmeae bi no , wɔabɔ mmofra a wɔde aguamansɛm ho mfonini mena mmofra afoforo no sobo na wɔama wɔakyerɛw wɔn din ato hɔ sɛ nnipa a wɔde nna ho nsɛm teetee afoforo .

(src)="19"> As a parent , you too can be held liable if your name is on the cell - phone contract or if you fail to take measures to prevent your child from sexting .
(trg)="18"> Sɛ́ ɔwofo no , sɛ wo din wɔ nkrataa mu sɛ fon no yɛ wo de , na wansiw no kwan na ɔde yɛ saa a , wo nso wubetumi anya asɛm .

(src)="20"> Set clear rules .
(trg)="19"> Hyehyɛ mmara a emu da hɔ .

(src)="21"> Although you cannot fully control your teenager’s cell - phone use , you can make sure that he or she knows your rules ​ — as well as the consequences for breaking those rules .
(trg)="20"> Ɛwom sɛ worentumi nkyerɛ wo babun nea ɛsɛ sɛ ɔde ne fon yɛ nyinaa de , nanso wubetumi ama wahu nea wohwehwɛ afi ne hɔ ​ — ne nea sɛ obu wo mmara so a , ebefi mu aba .

(src)="22"> Remember , too , that as a parent , you have the right to monitor your teenager’s cell phone . ​ — Bible principle : Ephesians 6 : 1 .
(trg)="21"> Kae nso sɛ , sɛ ɔwofo no , wowɔ hokwan sɛ bere biara wuhu nea wo ba no de ne fon reyɛ . ​ — Bible nnyinasosɛm : Efesofo 6 : 1 .

(src)="23"> Help your teenager to reason on the problem .
(trg)="22"> Boa wo ba ma onsusuw asɛm no ho .

(src)="24"> You could say : “ There are many opinions as to what constitutes sexting .
(trg)="23"> Wubetumi aka sɛ : “ Ɛsono adwene a nnipa pii kura wɔ aguamansɛm a wɔde mena mena ho .

(src)="25"> How would you define the term ? ”
(trg)="24"> Wobɛkyerɛkyerɛ mu dɛn ? ”

(src)="26"> “ What kinds of photos do you think are inappropriate ? ”
(trg)="25"> “ Mfonini ahorow bɛn na wususuw sɛ ɛmfata ? ”

(src)="27"> “ In some places the law considers a minor who sends a nude photo of a minor to be guilty of a crime .
(trg)="26"> “ Wɔ mmeae bi no , mmara mma kwan sɛ abofra bi de ne yɔnko abofra a wabɔ adagyaw mfonini bɛmena obi .

(src)="28"> Do you think it’s that bad ? ”
(trg)="27"> Wususuw sɛ ɛyɛ mfomso saa ? ”

(src)="29"> “ Why would sexting be morally wrong ? ”
(trg)="28"> “ Dɛn nti na aguamansɛm a wɔde fa fon so mena no yɛ bɔne ? ”

(src)="30"> Listen carefully to his or her reasoning , and help your teenager to think beyond the send button . ​ — Bible principle : Hebrews 5 : 14 .
(trg)="29"> Yɛ aso tie nea wo ba no bɛka , na boa ma onhu sɛ ɛnyɛ fon so a obemiamia ne asɛm no , na mmom nea ebetumi afi mu aba no . ​ — Bible nnyinasosɛm : Hebrifo 5 : 14 .

(src)="31"> Think beyond the send button
(trg)="30"> Ɛnyɛ fon so a obemiamia ne asɛm no

(src)="32"> Present hypothetical scenarios .
(trg)="31"> Ma no mfatoho ahorow bi .

(src)="33"> You could say to your daughter : “ Suppose a girl is being pressured by a boy to ‘ sext ’ him .
(trg)="32"> Wubetumi aka akyerɛ wo babea sɛ : “ Fa no sɛ ɔbarima bi rehyɛ ababaa bi sɛ ontwa n’adagyaw ho mfonini mfa mmena no .

(src)="34"> What should she do ?
(trg)="33"> Dɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ ɔyɛ ?

(src)="35"> Give in so that she does not lose the friendship ?
(trg)="34"> Ontwa sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ a wɔn adamfofa no rensɛe ?

(src)="36"> Refuse the request but flirt with him anyway ?
(trg)="35"> Mma ɔmpene so , nanso ɔnkɔ so ne no mmɔ ?

(src)="37"> End the relationship ?
(trg)="36"> Ontwa adamfofa no mu ?

(src)="38"> Tell an adult ? ”
(trg)="37"> Ɔnka nkyerɛ ɔpanyin bi ? ”

(src)="39"> Help your daughter to reason on the matter .
(trg)="38"> Boa wo babea no ma onsusuw asɛm no ho .

(src)="40"> Of course , you can use a similar approach with a son . ​ — Bible principle : Galatians 6 : 7 .
(trg)="39"> Wubetumi afa ɔkwan a ɛte saa ara so ne wo babarima nso asusuw nsɛm ho . — Bible nnyinasosɛm : Galatifo 6 : 7 .

(src)="41"> Appeal to your teenager’s sense of goodness .
(trg)="40"> Ka nsɛm a ɛbɛka wo ba no koma .

(src)="42"> Ask questions such as these : How important to you is a good reputation ?
(trg)="41"> Bisa no nsɛm bi te sɛ : Wobɛpɛ sɛ wɔbɔ wo din pa anaa wɔbɔ wo dimmɔne ?

(src)="43"> What traits do you want to be known for ?
(trg)="42"> Suban bɛn na wobɛpɛ sɛ afoforo de hu wo ?

(src)="44"> How would you feel about yourself if you humiliated someone by forwarding an inappropriate picture ?
(trg)="43"> Sɛ wode mfonini a ɛmfata mena obi de teetee no a , wobɛte nka dɛn ?

(src)="45"> How would you feel if you took a stand for what is right ?
(trg)="44"> Nanso sɛ woyɛ ade pa nso ɛ ?

(src)="46"> Help your teen to “ hold a good conscience . ” ​ — 1 Peter 3 : 16 .
(trg)="45"> Boa wo babun ma ‘ onkura ahonim pa mu . ’ ​ — 1 Petro 3 : 16 .

(src)="47"> Set the example yourself .
(trg)="46"> Ɛsɛ sɛ w’ankasa woyɛ nhwɛso .

(src)="48"> The Bible says that godly wisdom is chaste and free from hypocrisy .
(trg)="47"> Bible ka sɛ , nyansa a efi soro no ho tew , na ɛnyɛ nyaatwom .

(src)="49"> Do your values reflect those words ?
(trg)="48"> Su a wukura no ne saa nsɛm yi hyia ?

(src)="50"> “ We need to set good examples ourselves and not view images and Web sites that could be viewed as unsavory or illegal , ” says the book CyberSafe .
(trg)="49"> Nhoma bi ka sɛ , “ Ɛsɛ sɛ yɛn ankasa yɛ nhwɛso pa , na ɛnsɛ sɛ yɛhwɛ mfonini a ɛmfata anaa yɛkɔ Intanɛt dwumadibea ahorow a enye . ” ​ — CyberSafe .

(src)="51"> “ Sexting ” refers to the act of sending sexually explicit messages , photos , or videos via cell phone .
(trg)="50"> “ Aguamansɛm a wɔde mena ” ( sexting ) yɛ aguamansɛm ho mfonini a wɔde fa fon so mena .

(src)="52"> For more information , go to the jw.org Web site and read the online article “ Young People Ask ​ — What Should I Know About Sexting ? ” ​ — Look under BIBLE TEACHINGS > TEENAGERS .
(trg)="51"> Sɛ wopɛ ɛho nsɛm pii a , kɔ Intanɛt so wɔ jw.org na kenkan asɛm “ Young People Ask ​ — What Should I Know About Sexting ? ” ​ — Kɔ BIBLE TEACHINGS > TEENAGERS .

(src)="53"> “ Children , be obedient to your parents . ” ​ — Ephesians 6 : 1 .
(trg)="52"> “ Mma , muntie mo awofo asɛm . ” ​ — Efesofo 6 : 1 .

(src)="54"> “ Mature people . . . have their perceptive powers trained to distinguish both right and wrong . ” ​ — Hebrews 5 : 14 .
(trg)="53"> ‘ Wɔn a wɔn ho akokwaw no de wɔn adwene yɛ adwuma nti , wɔatete no ma etumi hu papa ne bɔne mu nsonsonoe . ’ — Hebrifo 5 : 14 .

(src)="55"> “ Whatever a man is sowing , this he will also reap . ” ​ — Galatians 6 : 7 .
(trg)="54"> Nea onipa gu no , ɛno ara na obetwa . ” ​ — Galatifo 6 : 7 .

(src)="56"> If talking about sexting will be awkward for you or your teen , you might try this approach :
(trg)="55"> Sɛ aguamansɛm ho mfonini a wɔde mena ho nkɔmmɔbɔ bɛyɛ den ama wo anaa wo babun no a , wubetumi asɔ eyi ahwɛ :

(src)="57"> First , have your teen talk about what others are doing .
(trg)="56"> Nea edi kan no , ma wo ba no nka nea afoforo reyɛ ho asɛm nkyerɛ wo .

(src)="58"> Then say : “ I’ve heard a lot about sexting .
(trg)="57"> Afei ka sɛ : “ Mate sexting ho nsɛm pii .

(src)="59"> Is this practice common ? ”
(trg)="58"> So nnipa pii de wɔn ho hyem ? ”

(src)="60"> Next , find out how he or she feels about what others are doing .
(trg)="59"> Afei bisa no sɛnea ɔte nka wɔ nea afoforo reyɛ no ho .

(src)="61"> You could ask : “ Do you think people grasp the consequences of sexting ? ”
(trg)="60"> Wubetumi abisa sɛ : “ Wugye di sɛ nkurɔfo te nea ebetumi afi sexting mu aba no ase ? ”

(src)="62"> Then , discuss what your teenager would do .
(trg)="61"> Afei munsusuw nea wo babun no bɛyɛ ho .

(src)="63"> Respond by saying : “ Let’s talk about what you should do if you receive an explicit text . ”
(trg)="62"> Ka eyi fa yi n’ano : “ Ma yɛnka nea ɛsɛ sɛ woyɛ bere a obi de aguamansɛm amena wo wɔ fon so no . ”

(src)="64"> Tip : You could use a news report to start a discussion .
(trg)="63"> Nyansahyɛ : Wubetumi de asɛm bi a asi ho asɛm afi nkɔmmɔbɔ no ase .

(src)="65"> For example : “ I read about a girl whose explicit photo was forwarded all over her school .
(trg)="64"> Sɛ nhwɛso no : “ Makenkan ababaa bi a wɔde n’adagyaw ho mfonini amena mena ne sukuufo nyinaa ho asɛm .

(src)="66"> Does this kind of thing really happen ? ”
(trg)="65"> So biribi a ɛte sɛɛ tumi si ankasa ? ”

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(src)="1"> HELP FOR THE FAMILY | MARRIAGE
(trg)="1"> MMOA A WƆDE MA ABUSUA NO | AWARE

(src)="2"> You cannot forget the bad things your spouse has said or done ; the harsh words and thoughtless acts are indelibly etched in your memory .
(trg)="2"> Wo kunu anaa wo yere aka biribi anaa wayɛ biribi ama ahaw wo ; wakeka nsɛm bi a ɛyɛ yaw anaa wayɛ nneɛma bi a ɛmfata akyerɛ wo ma enti woafa no tirimka .

(src)="3"> As a result , the affection you once had has been replaced by resentment .
(trg)="3"> Wei nti , ɔdɔ a wowɔ ma no nyinaa atu ayera .

(src)="4"> You have no choice , it seems , but to endure a loveless marriage .
(trg)="4"> Wohu sɛ w’aware ayɛ tayoo ; ɔdɔ biara nnim , nanso ɛsɛ sɛ wotena ho saa ara .

(src)="5"> You resent your spouse for that too .
(trg)="5"> Ɛno nso nti wompɛ wo kunu anaa wo yere anim ahwɛ koraa .

(src)="6"> Be assured that things can improve .
(trg)="6"> Ka wo koma to wo yam ; ɛbɛtumi ayɛ yiye .

(src)="7"> First , though , consider a few facts about resentment .
(trg)="7"> Nanso di kan hwɛ tirimka ho asɛm kakra .

(src)="8"> Holding on to resentment creates a burden that keeps your marriage from moving forward
(trg)="8"> Tirimka anaa menasepɔw te sɛ adesoa bi ; ɛtwe aware san

(src)="9"> Resentment can destroy a marriage .
(trg)="9"> Tirimka bɛtumi asɛe aware .

(src)="10"> Why ?
(trg)="10"> Adɛn ntia ?

(src)="11"> Because it undermines the very qualities upon which a marriage should be built , including love , trust , and loyalty .
(trg)="11"> Wo deɛ hwɛ o , nneɛma a aware gyina so te sɛ ɔdɔ , ahotoso ne nokwaredi no , tirimka bɛtumi adwiriw ne nyinaa agu .

(src)="12"> In a sense , then , resentment is not the result of a marital problem ; it is a marital problem .
(trg)="12"> Enti yɛbɛka a , ɛnyɛ aware mu haw na ɛma obi fa ne dɔfo tirimka ; mmom tirimka yɛ biribi a ɛbɛtumi asɛe aware .

(src)="13"> For good reason , the Bible says : “ Put away from yourselves every kind of malicious bitterness . ” ​ — Ephesians 4 : 31 .
(trg)="13"> Wei nyinaa nti Bible ka sɛ , ‘ Monyi menasepɔw anaa tirimka nyinaa mfi mo mu . ’ ​ — Efesofo 4 : 31 .

(src)="14"> If you harbor resentment , you are hurting yourself .
(trg)="14"> Wode obi ho asɛm hyɛ wo mu a , wo ara na wohaw wo ho .

(src)="15"> Harboring resentment is like slapping yourself and then expecting the other person to feel the pain .
(trg)="15"> Sɛ wode obi ho asɛm hyɛ wo mu a , ɛte sɛ nea worebɔ w’asom na wopɛ sɛ obi a ɔgyina nkyɛn na ɛyɛ ne yaw .

(src)="16"> “ The family member who is the focus of your resentment may be feeling just fine , enjoying life , and perhaps not at all troubled by any of this , ” writes Mark Sichel in his book Healing From Family Rifts .
(trg)="16"> Owura bi a yɛfrɛ no Mark Sichel kyerɛw sɛ , “ Wo busuani a woafa ne ho abufuw no , ɔno deɛ ebia ɔnnim ho hwee enti ɔnam ne baabi ; hwee mfa ne ho .
(trg)="17"> Enti deɛ ɛrekɔ so nyinaa , ɛnka ne koot . ”

(src)="17"> The bottom line ?
(trg)="18"> ( Healing From Family Rifts ) Asɛm yi pɔ ne sɛn ?

(src)="18"> “ Resentment hurts you far more than the person you resent , ” Sichel says .
(trg)="19"> Sichel kaa sɛ , “ Wode obi ho asɛm hyɛ wo mu a , wo ara na wopira wo ho ; ɛnyɛ onipa no hwee . ”

(src)="19"> Harboring resentment is like slapping yourself and then expecting the other person to feel the pain
(trg)="20"> Sɛ wode obi ho asɛm hyɛ wo mu a , ɛte sɛ nea worebɔ w’asom na wopɛ sɛ obi a ɔgyina nkyɛn na ɛyɛ ne yaw

(src)="20"> Resentment is a choice .
(trg)="21"> Wopɛ sɛ wo bo fuw a , ɛnna wo bo fuw .

(src)="21"> Some people might doubt that .
(trg)="22"> Ebinom bɛka sɛ ɛnyɛ nokware .

(src)="22"> They would say , ‘ My spouse made me resentful . ’
(trg)="23"> Nea wɔka ne sɛ , ‘ Me kunu anaa me yere na ɛhyɛɛ me abufuw . ’

(src)="23"> The problem is , such thinking puts the emphasis on something that cannot be controlled ​ — the actions of another person .
(trg)="24"> Wɔka saa a , na wɔrepɛ akyerɛ sɛ yɛyɛ ho hwee a , ɛrenyɛ yiye , ɛfiri sɛ brane yɛmmɔ no bɛdɛ ; obi suban deɛ , wontumi nyɛ ho hwee .

(src)="24"> The Bible offers an alternative .
(trg)="25"> Bible kyerɛ kwan foforo a yɛbɛtumi afa so .

(src)="25"> It says : “ Let each one examine his own actions . ”
(trg)="26"> Ɛka sɛ : “ Obiara nsɔ n’ankasa adwuma nhwɛ . ”

(src)="26"> We cannot control what someone else says or does , but we can control how we react to it .
(trg)="27"> Nea obi bɛyɛ ne nea obi bɛka deɛ , yɛntumi nyɛ ho hwee .

(src)="27"> Resentment is not the only option .
(trg)="28"> Nanso yɛn ara yɛn nneyɛe deɛ , yɛbɛtumi ayɛ ho biribi .

(src)="28"> Take responsibility for your resentment .
(trg)="29"> Enti sɛ obi yɛ biribi ma ɛhaw wo a , ɛno nkyerɛ sɛ ma wo bo mfuw .

(src)="29"> Granted , it is easy to blame your spouse .
(trg)="32"> Nanso kae sɛ abufuw deɛ , wopɛ a ɛnna wo bo fuw .

(src)="30"> But remember , resentment is a choice .
(trg)="33"> Wopɛ nso a , wobɛtumi de bɔne akyɛ .

(src)="31"> So is forgiveness .
(trg)="34"> Wobɛtumi de Bible mu afotusɛm yi ayɛ adwuma .

(src)="32"> You can choose to follow the Bible’s admonition : “ Do not let the sun set while you are still angry . ”
(trg)="35"> Ɛka sɛ : “ Mommma owia nnkɔtɔ mo so mo abufuw mu . ”

(src)="33"> A spirit of forgiveness gives you an opportunity to approach your marriage problems with a better mind - set . ​ — Bible principle : Colossians 3 : 13 .
(trg)="36"> Woyɛ obi a wode bɔne kyɛ a , wonya adwempa de siesie w’aware mu haw . ​ — Bible nnyinasosɛm : Kolosefo 3 : 13 .