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(src)="1"> © 2018 Watch Tower Bible and Tract Society of Pennsylvania
(trg)="1"> © 2018 Watch Tower Bible and Tract Society of Pennsylvania

(src)="2"> This publication is not for sale .
(trg)="2"> Magazini eeyi teeyakuuzya pe .

(src)="3"> It is provided as part of a worldwide Bible educational work supported by voluntary donations .
(trg)="3"> Yakalembelwa kugwasya bantu kwiiya Bbayibbele alimwi zipo zyakuliyandila nzizyo zigwasya kusumpula mulimu ooyu wamunyika yoonse .

(src)="4"> To make a donation , please visit www.jw.org .
(trg)="4"> Magwalo ngitwabelesya azwa muBbayibbele litegwa The Bible in Tonga 1963 ( Zambia ) , kunze kwakuti twatondeezya limbi .

(src)="5"> Unless otherwise indicated , Scripture quotations are from the modern - language New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures .
(trg)="5"> Aalembedwe kuti NW kutondeezya kuti magwalo azwa muBbayibbele lyaChikuwa litegwa New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures .

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(src)="1"> We hear a lot about what goes wrong in families that fail .
(trg)="1"> Kuli zintu zyiingi zipa kuti mpuli zitazwidilili .

(src)="2"> But what goes right in those that succeed ?
(trg)="2"> Pesi niinzi chipa kuti zimwi mpuli kazizwidilila ?

(src)="3"> Between 1990 and 2015 , the divorce rate in the United States doubled for those over the age of 50 and tripled for those over 65 .
(trg)="3"> Kuzwa mu1990 kusika mu2015 kuUnited States , mweelwe wabantu balekana bali aminyaka yiinda ku50 wakayungizya kwaziindi zibili alubo mweelwe wabantu bali aminyaka yiinda ku65 wakayungizya kwaziindi zitatu .

(src)="4"> Parents are confused : Some experts recommend giving children constant praise , while others advocate tough love .
(trg)="4"> Bazyali balakataazikana nkaambo bamwi basyaabusongo batii bana beelede kulumbayizigwa chiindi choonse pesi bamwi batii bazyali beelede kuba alunya kubana .

(src)="5"> Young people are entering adulthood without the skills they need to succeed .
(trg)="5"> Bachikula biingi balikuswaana buyumu - yumu nibakomena nkaambo teebakayiisigwa zintu zibagwasya kuti bazwidilile mubuumi .

(src)="6"> Nevertheless , the fact is . . .
(trg)="6"> Nikuba boobo , simpe ndyakuti . . .

(src)="7"> Marriage can be a rewarding and permanent bond .
(trg)="7"> Bantu bakwetene balakonzya kubotelwa akutalekana .

(src)="8"> Parents can learn to discipline their children with love .
(trg)="8"> Bazyali balakonzya kuyiisya bana babo munzila yaluyando .

(src)="9"> Young people can gain the skills they need for adulthood .
(trg)="9"> Bachikula balakonzya kwiiya zintu zikonzya kubagwasya nibakomena .

(src)="10"> How ?
(trg)="10"> Kujana zyachitika biyeni ?

(src)="11"> This issue of Awake !
(trg)="11"> Magazini eeyi iitegwa Amubuke !

(src)="12"> will discuss 12 secrets of successful families .
(trg)="12"> ipandulula nsiswa zili 12 zigwasya mpuli kuti zizwidilile .

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(src)="1"> Secret 1 Commitment
(trg)="1"> Nsiswa 1 Kulipeda

(src)="2"> Secret 2 Teamwork
(trg)="2"> Nsiswa 2 Kubelekelaamwi

(src)="3"> Secret 3 Respect
(trg)="3"> Nsiswa 3 Kulemekana

(src)="4"> Secret 4 Forgiveness
(trg)="4"> Nsiswa 4 Kulekelelana

(src)="5"> Secret 5 Communication
(trg)="5"> Nsiswa 5 Kwaambuuzyania

(src)="6"> Secret 6 Discipline
(trg)="6"> Nsiswa 6 Kulaya

(src)="7"> Secret 7 Values
(trg)="7"> Nsiswa 7 Zyeelelo Zyakulijata

(src)="8"> Secret 8 Example
(trg)="8"> Nsiswa 8 Chikozyano

(src)="9"> Secret 9 Identity
(trg)="9"> Nsiswa 9 Kuziba Mbubede

(src)="10"> Secret 10 Trustworthiness
(trg)="10"> Nsiswa 10 Kusyomeka

(src)="11"> Secret 11 Industriousness
(trg)="11"> Nsiswa 11 Kubeleka Changuzu

(src)="12"> Secret 12 Goals
(trg)="12"> Nsiswa 12 Zipeekezyo

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(src)="1"> Commitment is like an anchor that keeps your marriage steady during stormy times
(trg)="1"> Kulipeda kuli mbuuli ngobyo iipa kuti lukwatano lwanu lukkale kalusimide nikuba mubuyumu - yumu

(src)="2"> FOR COUPLES
(trg)="2"> ZIGWASYA BAKWETENE

(src)="3"> Husbands and wives who are committed to their marriage view it as a permanent bond , and that creates a sense of security between them .
(trg)="3"> Baalumi abakayintu balipedelede mulukwatano balizi kuti tabeelede kulekana pe alubo balimvwa kabakwabilidwe .

(src)="4"> Each spouse is confident that the other will honor the union , even in difficult times .
(trg)="4"> Boonse basyoma kuti tabakalekani pe nikuba kuti baswaana buyumu - yumu mulukwatano .

(src)="5"> Some couples feel compelled to stay together because of social or family pressure .
(trg)="5"> Bamwi bantu mulukwatano basala kutalekana nkaambo bayoowa kuti beenzinyina naakuti bamumpuli balababona kuti tabali kabotu .

(src)="6"> Far better , however , is a sense of commitment that is based on mutual love and respect .
(trg)="6"> Pesi chiyandikana mulukwatano nkuti boonse bakkale kabalipedelede , kabayandana akulemekana .

(src)="7"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ A husband should not leave his wife . ” ​ — 1 Corinthians 7 : 11 .
(trg)="7"> NZILYAAMBA BBAYIBBELE : “ Mwaalumi teelede kuleka mukaakwe . ” — 1 BaKorinto 7 : 11 .

(src)="8"> “ If you are committed to your marriage , you allow yourself to be wronged .
(trg)="8"> “ Kuti kulipedelede mulukwatano , tukoofwambaana kunyema .

(src)="9"> You are quick to forgive and quick to apologize .
(trg)="9"> Unoofwambaana kulekelela akufwambaana kukumbila lulekelelo .

(src)="10"> You view problems as obstacles , not as deal breakers . ” ​ — Micah .
(trg)="10"> Tukooyeeya kuti buyumu - yumu mbumuswaana butondeezya kuti mweelede kulekana . ” — Micah .

(src)="11"> When confronted with problems , spouses without commitment are more likely to conclude , ‘ We just weren’t made for each other ’ and look for ways to get out of the marriage .
(trg)="11"> Bakwetene batalipedelede nibaswaana buyumu - yumu , balakonzya kuyeeya kuti , ‘ Teengundakasalilidwe pe ’ mpawo ngabayeeya kulekana .

(src)="12"> “ Many people go into marriage knowing that they have a ‘ fallback plan ’ ​ — divorce .
(trg)="12"> “ Bantu biingi ngabakwatana kabayeeya kuti balakonzya kulekana kuti kabatachibotelwi mulukwatano .

(src)="13"> When people enter marriage already thinking about the possibility of divorce , their commitment is lacking right from the start . ” ​ — Jean .
(trg)="13"> Kuti bantu bakwatana kabayeeya kuti bayoolekana , chaamba kuti teebakalipedelede pe nibakakwatana . ” — Jean .

(src)="14"> TEST YOURSELF
(trg)="14"> LILANGE - LANGE

(src)="15"> When in the middle of a dispute . . .
(trg)="15"> Kuti kwaba kutamvwanana . . .

(src)="16"> Do you find yourself regretting that you married your spouse ?
(trg)="16"> Ulalisola na kuti nkamboonzi nwaakakwatana amuntu ooyo ?

(src)="17"> Do you daydream about being with someone else ?
(trg)="17"> Uyeeya kuti kaansinga uli awumwi muntu na ?

(src)="18"> Do you say things such as “ I’m leaving you ” or “ I’m going to find someone who appreciates me ” ?
(trg)="18"> Ngawaamba kuti “ Nsichikuyandi ” na naakuti “ Ndizoomujana uundimvwisisisya ” ?

(src)="19"> If you answered yes to one or more of those questions , now is the time to strengthen your commitment .
(trg)="19"> Kuti nsandulo yako kayili iiyi kumibuzyo eeyi , weelede kubeleka changuzu kuti ulipede mulukwatano lwanu .

(src)="20"> DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE
(trg)="20"> WAMBUUZYANIA MIBUZYO IITOBELA ANGUKWETENAAWE

(src)="21"> Has the level of commitment in our marriage decreased ?
(trg)="21"> Tuchilipedelede na mbuuli mbutwakali kuchita chiindi ?

(src)="22"> If so , why ?
(trg)="22"> Kuti kakutali oobo , nkamboonzi ?

(src)="23"> What steps can we take now to strengthen our commitment ?
(trg)="23"> Tweelede kuchitaanzi kuti tulipede mulukwatano lwesu ?

(src)="24"> TIPS
(src)="25"> Write an occasional love note to your spouse
(trg)="25"> Chiindi achiindi , lembela ngukwetenaawe kagwalo kali amajwi aaluyando

(src)="26"> Show your commitment by displaying photos of your spouse on your desk at work
(trg)="26"> Tondeezya kuti ulilipedelede kwiinda mukubikka zifanikisyo zyamuntu ngukwetenaawe atebbulu kumulimu naakuti nkubelekela

(src)="27"> Phone your spouse each day while you are at work or apart
(trg)="27"> Wambuuzyania angukwetenaawe nuli kumulimu naakuti nimutali aamwi

(src)="28"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ What God has yoked together , let no man put apart . ” ​ — Matthew 19 : 6 .
(trg)="28"> NZILYAAMBA BBAYIBBELE : “ Abo mbaakakakatizya Leza muntu atabapambukanyi . ” — Matayo 19 : 6 .

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(src)="1"> Teamwork means that you are pilot and copilot with the same flight plan
(trg)="1"> Mweelede kubelekelaamwi mbuuli zichita sikweenzya ndeke awumugwasya bali amakanze aakozyenie

(src)="2"> FOR COUPLES
(trg)="2"> ZIGWASYA BAKWETENE

(src)="3"> When there is teamwork in a marriage , a husband and wife are like a pilot and copilot with the same flight plan .
(trg)="3"> Mwaalumi amukayintu babelekelaamwi mulukwatano bali mbuuli sikweenzya ndeke awumugwasya , bali amakanze aakozyenie .

(src)="4"> Even when challenges arise , each spouse thinks in terms of “ we ” rather than “ me . ”
(trg)="4"> Nikuba chiindi nibaswaana mapenzi , boonse babelesya mabala aakuti “ iswe ” kutali kuti “ ime . ”

(src)="5"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ They are no longer two , but one flesh . ” ​ — Matthew 19 : 6 .
(trg)="5"> NZILYAAMBA BBAYIBBELE : “ Lino tabacili bobile pe , baba nyama yomwe . ” — Matayo 19 : 6 .

(src)="6"> “ Marriage is not a solo act .
(trg)="6"> “ Lukwatano teelwamuntu omwe .

(src)="7"> Husband and wife must work together to make it successful . ” ​ — Christopher .
(trg)="7"> Mwaalumi amukayintu beelede kubelekelaamwi kuti lukwatano lwabo luzwidilile . ” — Christopher .

(src)="8"> When a conflict arises , a husband and wife who are not a team will tend to attack each other rather than the problem .
(trg)="8"> Kuti kwaba kutamvwanana , bakwetene batabelekelaamwi bayanduula wabisya mulukwatano kutali kumana penzi .

(src)="9"> Minor issues will turn into major obstacles .
(trg)="9"> Eezi zilakonzya kupa kuti twaambo tuniini tube twaambo tupati .

(src)="10"> “ Teamwork is the essence of marriage .
(trg)="10"> “ Kubelekelaamwi kulayandikana kuti lukwatano luzwidilile .

(src)="11"> If my husband and I weren’t a team , we would be roommates instead of marriage mates ​ — two people who live together but who aren’t on the same page when it comes to important decisions . ” ​ — Alexandra .
(trg)="11"> Kaansinga ime amulumaangu tatubelekelaamwi nikuli tuli bantu babili bakkala aamwi pesi batagwasyanyi mukusala zintu ziyandikana . ” — Alexandra .

(src)="12"> TEST YOURSELF
(trg)="12"> LILANGE - LANGE

(src)="13"> Do I view the money I earn as “ all mine ” ?
(trg)="13"> Mali njitujana ndiyibona kayili “ yangu na andikke ” ?

(src)="14"> To relax fully , do I need to be away from my spouse ?
(trg)="14"> Kuti kandiyanda kulyookezya , ndiyandisya kuba kule na angundikwetenaawe ?

(src)="15"> Do I keep my distance from my spouse’s relatives , even though he or she is close to them ?
(trg)="15"> Nditondeezya kuti tandiziyandi na zibbululu zyangundikwetenaawe , nikuba kuti we ulaziyanda ?

(src)="16"> DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE
(trg)="16"> WAMBUUZYANIA MIBUZYO IITOBELA ANGUKWETENAAWE

(src)="17"> In what aspect ( s ) of our marriage do we work well as a team ?
(trg)="17"> Nziizili zintu nzituchita mulukwatano lwesu zitondeezya kuti tubelekelaamwi ?

(src)="18"> In what aspect ( s ) could we improve ?
(trg)="18"> Tweelede kubambululaali ?

(src)="19"> What steps can we take to improve our spirit of teamwork ?
(trg)="19"> Tweelede kuchitaanzi kuti tubelekelaamwi ?

(src)="20"> TIPS
(src)="21"> Imagine a tennis match with the two of you on opposite sides of the net .
(trg)="20"> ZIKONZYA KUMUGWASYA

(src)="22"> Instead , what practical steps can you take to join your spouse so that you are both on the same team ?
(trg)="21"> Atuteedi muli kusaana chisobano cha - tennis mpawo muli mumatimu aasiyene angukwetenaawe , kujana mwachita biyeni kuti mube mutimu iimwi ?

(src)="23"> Instead of thinking , ‘ How can I win ? ’
(trg)="22"> Muchiindi chakwaamba kuti ‘ Kujana ndachita biyeni kuti ndizunde ? ’

(src)="24"> think ‘ How can we both win ? ’
(trg)="23"> weelede kwaamba kuti ‘ Kujana twachita biyeni kuti tuzunde ? ’

(src)="25"> “ Forget about who is right and who is wrong .
(trg)="24"> “ Tamweelede kuyanduula wabisya .

(src)="26"> That isn’t as important as having peace and unity in your marriage . ” ​ — Ethan .
(trg)="25"> Kuyeeya oobo takupi kuti mulukwatano kube luumuno akujatana . ” — Ethan .

(src)="27"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ Look out not only for your own interests , but also for the interests of others . ” ​ — Philippians 2 : 3 , 4 .
(trg)="26"> NZILYAAMBA BBAYIBBELE : “ Tamweelede kuyeeya kuligwasya nubeni luzutu , pe , umwi aumwi uleelede kwiingasila kugwasya mweenzinyina . ” — BaFilipi 2 : 3 , 4 .

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(src)="1"> Respectful speech is the mortar that can hold your marriage together
(trg)="1"> Kwaambuula munzila yabulemu mbulongo naakuti nisamende iipa kuti mukkale kamujisini mulukwatano

(src)="2"> FOR COUPLES
(trg)="2"> ZIGWASYA BAKWETENE

(src)="3"> Respectful spouses care about each other , even during a disagreement .
(trg)="3"> Kuti bakwetene kabalemekana , banootondeezyania luyando nikuba chiindi nibatamvwanani .

(src)="4"> “ These couples don’t get gridlocked in their separate positions , ” says the book Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage .
(trg)="4"> Bbuku litegwa Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage lyaamba kuti : “ Tabachiti zintu zikonzya kupa kuti batamvwanani mulukwatano lwabo .

(src)="5"> “ Instead , they keep talking with each other about conflicts .
(trg)="5"> Pesi balaambuuzyania atala ambubakonzya kumana kutamvwanana .

(src)="6"> They listen respectfully to their spouses ’ perspectives and they find compromises that work for both sides . ”
(trg)="6"> Balaswiilizyania alubo bachita zintu zibagwasya . ”

(src)="7"> BIBLE PRINCIPLE : “ Love . . . does not look for its own interests . ” ​ — 1 Corinthians 13 : 4 , 5 .
(trg)="7"> NZILYAAMBA BBAYIBBELE : ‘ Luyando . . . talulilangilili chintu . ’ — 1 BaKorinto 13 : 4 , 5 .

(src)="8"> “ To respect my wife means that I appreciate her value and I don’t want to do anything that would damage her or our marriage . ” ​ — Micah .
(trg)="8"> “ Ndilamulemeka mukayintu wangu kwiinda mukuchita zintu zitondeezya kuti ulayandikana alubo tandichiti zintu zipa kuti tutamvwanani mulukwatano lwesu . ” — Micah .

(src)="9"> Without respect , conversation between spouses can become laced with criticism , sarcasm , and even contempt ​ — qualities that researchers say are early predictors of divorce .
(trg)="9"> Basikuyanduulisisya baamba kuti , kwaambuula munzila iitakwe bulemu kupa kuti bantu bakwetene kabatukilana akubona ngubakwetenaawe katagwasyi pe — alubo zipa kuti balekane .

(src)="10"> “ Making snide remarks , innuendos , or jokes about your wife will only crush her confidence , destroy her trust , and damage your marriage . ” ​ — Brian .
(trg)="10"> “ Kubelesya majwi aakuninda amajwi aatali kabotu zipa kuti muntu ngukwetenaawe achisigwe moyo , atakusyomi akuti mutamvwanani mulukwatano . ” — Brian .

(src)="11"> TEST YOURSELF
(trg)="11"> LILANGE - LANGE

(src)="12"> Track your conversation and actions for a week .
(trg)="12"> Langisisya mbwaambuula anzumuchitila ngukwetenaawe kwamviki .

(src)="13"> Then ask yourself :
(trg)="13"> Mpawo ulibuzye kuti :

(src)="14"> ‘ How often did I criticize my spouse , and how often did I give her a compliment ? ’
(trg)="14"> Ndakamwaambwida tungane ngundikwetenaawe alubo ndakamulumbayizya tungane ?

(src)="15"> ‘ In what specific ways did I show respect for my spouse ? ’
(trg)="15"> Nziizili zintu nzindakachita zitondeezya kuti ndamulemeka ngundikwetenaawe ?

(src)="16"> DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE
(trg)="16"> WAMBUUZYANIA MIBUZYO IITOBELA ANGUKWETENAAWE

(src)="17"> What actions and words would help each of you feel respected ?
(trg)="17"> Ngaali majwi amichito ziyoomugwasya kuti umwi awumwi alimvwe kuti ulalemekwa ?